How Does Mindfulness Work?

Mindfulness works on a number of levels: On a physiological level, mindfulness practice activates the relaxation response: Your heart rate drops, breathing slows down, blood pressure drops, and you feel calmer and more relaxed. In other words, this is activation of the parasympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for the “rest and digest response.” OnContinue reading “How Does Mindfulness Work?”

How Do I Focus My Attention?

Mindfulness is attention training. Although we might look serene and still on the outside, what we are doing on the inside is actually a very active process and endeavor. During mindfulness meditation, we are actively working with our attention, managing our attention, and redirecting our attention. Attention is like a flashlight. Where we point theContinue reading “How Do I Focus My Attention?”

How Do I Calm Down My Wandering Mind?

Being distracted and unfocused during meditation is very common. Having a wandering mind during meditation is very common. It doesn’t mean that you are doing it wrong, or that you are “not cut out for mindfulness meditation.” It’s OK that many thoughts come up and distract us during meditation. The mindfulness technique is to noticeContinue reading “How Do I Calm Down My Wandering Mind?”

How Do I Work with Strong Emotions?

Mindfulness practice is simply watching everything appear and disappear in this moment. Emotions, like everything else, appear and disappear on their own. With mindfulness training, we can just watch them come and go, without getting pulled in different directions. Emotions become difficult and create suffering when they are not able to come and go naturally,Continue reading “How Do I Work with Strong Emotions?”

How Do I Let Go of Thoughts?

First step in letting go of thoughts is to notice them. Being aware that we are wrapped up in thoughts instead of being in the present. Thoughts include all mental constructs/activities: Concepts Imagery Stories Fantasies Ongoing commentary Planning Worrying Memories Judgment Thoughts about thoughts In summary, thoughts are anything the mind does that pulls usContinue reading “How Do I Let Go of Thoughts?”

Why Do I Often Notice Tension in My Body During Meditation?

When we simply pay attention in a nonjudgmental way, we notice more than things about ourselves and our environment. Oftentimes, we may notice some tension in the body. Tightness in the shoulders and chest. Tension in the gut and abdomen. Tightness in the face, jaw, and neck. Tension in the back, hips, and limbs. ClenchingContinue reading “Why Do I Often Notice Tension in My Body During Meditation?”

What is Nonjudgmental Awareness?

Nonjudgmental awareness is seeing reality without filters. It means connecting with our experience in an unfiltered way. Most of us have used or worked with filters in daily life. Broadly speaking, there are two kinds of filters: Those that distort/change the original content (e.g., camera filters) Those that let some things through but not othersContinue reading “What is Nonjudgmental Awareness?”

How Do I Work with Fear and Anxiety?

Practicing mindfulness with fear and anxiety is to bring nonjudgmental awareness to our experience in the present moment. That means paying attention to our fear and anxiety in a particular way, consistent with the mindfulness technique. We typically do two things with thoughts and emotions, or anything that arises in our consciousness: Hold on toContinue reading “How Do I Work with Fear and Anxiety?”

How Do I Silence My Mind?

Mindfulness is nonjudgmental awareness of present moment. It’s not about getting rid of thoughts. It’s not about silencing the mind. It’s not about keeping thoughts away or preventing thoughts from arising. It’s about noticing when thoughts come up, and letting them go. We do this over and over and over again, with patience and compassionContinue reading “How Do I Silence My Mind?”

Why is Meditation Posture Important?

Posture supports the activity we are engaging in. Everything we do involves posture. Whether we are playing sports (tennis, golf) or performing a musical instrument (guitar, cello), posture is an important part of our engagement in the activity. Even everyday activities such as washing dishes or gardening involve posture. In mindfulness meditation, posture helps usContinue reading “Why is Meditation Posture Important?”